Cheaters never win, winners never cheat

It’s dilemma time…

I recently found out that a friend of mine, (its important to mention that were not that close) has a boyfriend who is cheating on her. 

For me personally I have absolutely no sympathy for a cheater.  I understand having urges and feelings that grow for someone else, but have the respect to break it off with the person you’re seeing.  How can you build a relationship on dishonesty?  To me it just doesn’t make any sense, yes I can admit people are only human and people do make mistakes.  If you make a mistake then you try to fix it not hold it in for 6 months and let it settle.  Trust me secrets always come out no matter what, and I truly believe KARMA is a mean old bitch!

Now back to the friend… it put me in an awkward position.. do i tell her?  Do I wait for him to tell her?  Every time she talks about him its like a feeling overwhelms me.. she deserves to know.

Its a hard place to be.. the point of this blog post is boys… keep your dick in your trousers, or break it off with your significant other before you cheat.  Girls.. don’t be whore with someone else s heart.  Cheating will end in someone getting hurt, trust me it isn’t worth it.Image

 

Relying on Others

In life you are going to have those moments where you need some one else’s help, but when is it too much to rely on someone else?

I think that making sure you pull your weight in any situation is so important and can help you for future success.  Although this might be true, sometimes you may need a little guidance, someone to help you find your way.  Lately i’ve had the opportunity to work with a friend, although this person is a friendly nice individual they tend to slack on the whole (ill have your back. you have mine).  When is it okay to say something?  When is enough enough, I find myself venting and ranting to friends and i feel like soon ill have to say something.  I guess this blog is solely a way to get my frustrations out without having to explode on anyone.  So for whoever is reading this or most likely no one, thank you for helping me vent.  

Dreamer

I must not be the only person out there who sits up at night wondering where their life will take them, or what the future brings.  Personally I am constantly day dreaming wondering what this amazing thing called life has in store for me.  Whether I’m bored in class and day dreaming about my crazy weekend plans (which lately consists of nothing too exciting, I can thank university for that one) or just what my next travel adventure will be its constant with me.  I just can’t seem to stop it, i always want to be planning something or seeing something new. 

Sometimes I wonder if i am solely a dreamer, if ill ever actually see the Colosseum in Rome, or the monastery in Meteora.  I have so many dreams and I want to see them all come true. ImageMy biggest fear is to wake up 20 years from now and regret chances that were given to me, or the opportunities I didn’t take.  Life is way to short to live with regrets. 

The first things on my list of things to accomplish was to start a blog.  I can officially tick that off my list.